If you’ve read Dale Carnegie’s classic self-help book How to Win Friends and Influence People, you know it contains a million takeaways for today’s modern marketer. After all, the whole thing is essentially about getting other people to do what you want them to do—the marketer’s basic function.
That last sentence isn’t exactly a fair representation. Because what makes Carnegie’s book so great is that his whole strategy for influencing people is never even remotely self-centered. Instead, the point he makes over and over again is that in order to win people over (to win their loyalty or their business) you must pay careful attention to their needs and then figure out ways to meet them.
When you do this—when you follow empathy with relevance—you gain friends, allies, and yes, even prospective students.